flash from the past week …day 1


so i decided to go through a bunch of my old pics

i take a dozen or more each time i post something here

there are thousands i could post but havent

so

why wait for thursdays for a throw back

i will go for a week of it

this is me in a friends shower from 2014

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why not take a selfie in a more old school fashion

mirror and my DSLR

i miss using that camera but it desperately needs to be cleaned

Why wait for October #BreastCancerAwareness


so, one of my new guys left a comment saying how much he likes breasts

well that got the “like” symbol stuck in my head and i wanted to do something cute

but being that it is now september and just a few short weeks until october

why not create a meme to share with others

a reminder

for women yes but for men as well

so here are my breasts

 a happy reminder that everyone should get a check up to stay healthy

i have posted this on my facebook page and you can easily share from there 

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please be good to yourself and those you love

ladies please practice self exams to learn your body

( and for my lovely men too )

for good health as well as for pleasure

love yourself in all the best ways for all the best reasons

love others for that same reason

you inspired today’s blog #SFW #photo


i have received private messages on fetlife or other sites for years

always saying the same thing

“you inspire me” “you give me hope” “i can’t post pics like this to the world but i can love my body”

women…and men! have told me how brave i am to love myself, maybe not be content with all of my body

but to still go against the body shaming that people and society encourages

i love myself, i love aspects of my body and i am slowly shaping my body to the way i want to look

for better health and more energy… not because people think for me or tell me what to do or tell me what is considered attractive

i have no problem with other people and their body… so long as they are healthy and wear clothing that fits their shape

which is why i ave a serious problem with the fashion industry

how fucking complicated is it to make attractive clothing for people of different sizes?!

all shapes, all heights, all the different people with the same goal… to spend money looking and feeling good

stupidity annoys me to no end

ANYWAY

i decided to post a picture taken of me in wisconsin during my trip this past june

showing off my new capris that fit my curves well

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since may, i have started to slim down, my numbers havent changed much but my shape and face are both showing the differences that mark i am losing or reorganizing the weight

i am 5’0 or 152.5cm (silly i know)

i weigh 85 kilo or 187 lbs or 13.38 st

most of my weight is in my legs

i spent years doing sports and roller skating reallllly changed the shape of my legs

muscle weighs more than fat

but my breasts are heavy haha

E on the left

F on the right

i have scars and stretch marks

i have a body that has been through a lot

things mark my body even if they are not visible

but this is my body

i only have the one

i want to enjoy life in this body, treat it well and enjoy others

find your own desires, make them happen

love your body

dont listen to anyone who body shames

love who you are… faults and all

the reason i posted this today?

another lovely leaving a message

if i keep inspiring others to be kind to their-self

i will keep posting

not allowed out of my room by order of the kitten


i swear my life is odd and i couldnt make up half the shit that comes out of my mouth

the kitten has taken a sweater and is using it as a soft spot to sleep outside my door

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seems paprika is on guard duty as she sleeps with one eye open

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and when escape is possible

i find google guarding my 8 year old son

though it seems the floor is much too dangerous and my son’s feet are not allowed to touch the ground

possible boogieman siting though it is day light hours but what do i know

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obviously he is an undercover agent of some sort as i found him poking his nose into my business earlier

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i tell ya.. cats these days

crazy cats

a glimpse at my sole #FetishFriday


when i was traveling i needed to do laundry

while in an empty laundromat in southern wisconsin i saw a perfect opportunity

the light was strong and casting shadows around the room

i saw the reflection of myself in the dryer door and had to pose

thinking of the lovely friends and fans

the ones i adore so much

who wish they could be at my feet and make the day pleasurable

since i am not real to most people

catching my shadow was appropriate

only one man has worshiped my feet

my dog is missed greatly

hope you enjoy the hint of my feet

a glimpse at my sole

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E.B. Starpointer

erotic author and sex-positive male commentator

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