hair! to dye or not to dye! zat iz ze question


so my friend is coming to visit next month (april)

she always has wildly colorful hair

now i have never really dyed my hair

some think the idea of me changing color is almost sacrilegious

but my friend had the idea to just dip the tips

add a splash of fun

so she asked me to take some pics of my hair, unaltered and give an idea of what color i would like

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noooooooo fooookin’ clue!

never done this before

only time i ever dyed my hair was dying my pubes black to see what i would look like without matching carpet and drapes haha

so i thought i would share this with you

see what you think

i also jokingly said we should comb through my hair and find all the white ones

dye only those haha

hidden treasure!

“you may find this hard to believe….(no i dont love my laxative)”

but i do have a lot of white hair, it just does this ninja thing and makes my hair look more strawberry blond

so

speak up folks

what color should i dye the tips

or should i do a small lock of color?

tell me tell me

i dont do this fun fashionable shit

 

you inspired today’s blog #SFW #photo


i have received private messages on fetlife or other sites for years

always saying the same thing

“you inspire me” “you give me hope” “i can’t post pics like this to the world but i can love my body”

women…and men! have told me how brave i am to love myself, maybe not be content with all of my body

but to still go against the body shaming that people and society encourages

i love myself, i love aspects of my body and i am slowly shaping my body to the way i want to look

for better health and more energy… not because people think for me or tell me what to do or tell me what is considered attractive

i have no problem with other people and their body… so long as they are healthy and wear clothing that fits their shape

which is why i ave a serious problem with the fashion industry

how fucking complicated is it to make attractive clothing for people of different sizes?!

all shapes, all heights, all the different people with the same goal… to spend money looking and feeling good

stupidity annoys me to no end

ANYWAY

i decided to post a picture taken of me in wisconsin during my trip this past june

showing off my new capris that fit my curves well

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since may, i have started to slim down, my numbers havent changed much but my shape and face are both showing the differences that mark i am losing or reorganizing the weight

i am 5’0 or 152.5cm (silly i know)

i weigh 85 kilo or 187 lbs or 13.38 st

most of my weight is in my legs

i spent years doing sports and roller skating reallllly changed the shape of my legs

muscle weighs more than fat

but my breasts are heavy haha

E on the left

F on the right

i have scars and stretch marks

i have a body that has been through a lot

things mark my body even if they are not visible

but this is my body

i only have the one

i want to enjoy life in this body, treat it well and enjoy others

find your own desires, make them happen

love your body

dont listen to anyone who body shames

love who you are… faults and all

the reason i posted this today?

another lovely leaving a message

if i keep inspiring others to be kind to their-self

i will keep posting

he made me see the magic


i went to a 14th of july event

it is kind of like the 4th of july for the french

at least as far as day off, everything closed and parties

not to forget fireworks or in this case fire play

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not sure if any of it counts as fire poi

and it was different than juggling

but either way i saw beauty and captured the magic in my pictures

i love the partial face in this image

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and the ninja feeling here, as well as the 2 leaves from the tree

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a larger capture of the above image

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Innocent #Selfie


Innocent #Selfie

yup, i did the horror of taking my own picture..then again that is pretty usual for me haha

and yes this is me being innocent

innocent blog…COOKIES!!!


made cookies the other day but that all went to shit when i had to leave for a doctor appointment

i had been at the… i hate saying this… his house… Ze Ex in training (hubby to those that havent been paying attention)

had been baking cookies with my 6yr old as the other two played on the various games with some friends

the batch was looking good

think sugar cookie mixed with chocolate bits and chocolate wanna be mini m&m’s that the french call smarties

i made everything the way i wanted, poured it out and popped it in the oven

 

crud knockers!

was running late, seems i do that really well these ..years…

left for the dr appointment (ear was pounding me a new one, like having a tens electrical machine attached to the inside of my ear)

get a text from him asking what to do about the cookies

he takes the simple route and lets them cook longer

thus over baking into hard rock

bah humbug

 

i get back, save the last of the homemade dough and bring it back to the boy friend’s place

 

today i got the urge to finis making the batch but decided to make them into mini muffin cookies instead of…

well… when do i EVER do anything NORMAL…

so yeah, muffin cookies instead of normal cookies

 

taste great, slightly hard top but soft for the rest of the way through 😀

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and pictures to prove it… just like i said i would earlier today while on twitter

 

E.B. Starpointer

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