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The innocent changes


I’m impressed with the changes I’ve made this year

Not just losing the weight but finding myself again and again as necessary

These photos are chronological in order from oldest at the top to most recent at the bottom

For the past few years I’ve added colors to my hair, they wash out over time and someone thought my hair was brown… It was actually sections of faded blue 🀣

I’ve always wanted to be wild like other people but I’d been told that I wasn’t allowed to cut or dye my hair

Being forced into the sweet, innocent and romantic role… Which is only a fraction of who I am

I’m almost 40 and I don’t think give a shit about the damages to my face, it’s part of my health problems and will always flare up… There is nothing I can do about it so others can get used to it and see past it or they can fuck off

I’m almost 40 and my true character is finally Allowed to be free and I won’t settle for less than I give, thus deserve… You can see my personality in my pictures

In my body language and expressions, by what I’m choosing to capture and share… Pictures speak so much if you are willing to learn the language

The colors are like markings on toxic frogs, with me it changes the romantic aspects and forces others to look closer

I’m almost 40 and I love that I don’t look or act my age… Some days I feel 60+ 🀣

I love that I’m finally showing who I am and making it obvious for others to see

And I love that doing this is a giant “fuck you” snub at the forced social rules of etiquette that do more harm than good

Friday toes


Feeling the new curves


Love that the things I’ve been doing for my health and well being are “paying” off

I bought this top in the spring and I’m just now trying it on

Ok honestly, I tried it on a few days ago and wore it but I’m only just now taking pictures to share πŸ˜‚

Yes I’m a lazy git haha

When I looked in the mirror, my first thought was of the movie “indecent proposal”…

I’ll have to try getting my “lil sister” to help me strike the proper pose πŸ˜‰

But for now I’m happy with this image

Though I do admit, I wish I had more local folks to touch and play with my new curves haha

Yay continued weight loss


Over the last two years I’ve finally started to lose the “baby fat” from all of my pregnancies

I have 3 boys

My oldest is 21 and most can’t believe I’m old enough to even have kids, let alone 3 and that my youngest is 11

It’s still rather funny to be seen in town and have people think my oldest is my boyfriend

I like looking and feeling young

I’m 39 now but I don’t feeeel my age and I don’t want to… It’s just a number and basis of legality for whatever reason

I know keeping the weight off helps to reduce illness and the signs of aging and staying young inside helps as well

I’m currently down to 67.9 kilos

I was 92 kilos, which you can see in my older photos

The difference is impressive and I know I should be documenting it more…

It’s not easy to lose weight in general and now I need to find folks near me to help me start to tone up

More quality sex would be good too, sex is a lovely way to exercise πŸ˜‰

I hope you enjoy my adventures through life

Feel free to motivate me to post more often, I’m lacking a muse

Lost weight and feeling more me!


Holy fuck….

It just sank in as to how much weight I’ve lost

I don’t get stones… Right now I’m 11.5 stones
Doesn’t sound like much

Ok kilos I kinda get cause I have visuals around me to understand… I’m 73.3 kilo

Pounds I know and grew up with… 161.599

I’ve lost 19 kilos… Sounds good right

Did the translation

Fuck!!!

I’ve lost 41.888 lbs

In a year and a half

This just hit me like a ton of bricks to my brain πŸ˜‚

I really need to get my ass in gear and post new pictures, redo old pictures and show the progression

I’ve been so unmotivated to post on my blog but maybe that’s a good thing

My health is improving, even with the god awful heat wave through Europe… Which could literally cause me another stroke… So I’m not being a whiny cry baby about the heat

I’ve been hanging out with my “sister from another mister” for the last few months and we average 30 to 50 km (18.64 to 31.068 miles) per week when we walk all over town

I’ve been adding temporary color to my hair and even my natural color is slowly coming back to its former glory πŸ˜‚

Overall I’m feeling more me… And honestly, I’ve had a higher sex drive on average… Wether I act on it or not

I’ve made new friends who I hope will help me start to tone up and work on strength training once it cools down

Or new friends I’m hoping will teach me to dance and get over my fears of humiliation… Weird right?

I can post nudes, flash my tits on stage or have sex with an audience watching but fuckin’hell I feel awkward dancing cause ermigawd!! I might be judged!!

The brain is weird

I’m getting there

I’m doing it!

I’m gaining back all that I lost of myself from over a decade of mental and emotional abuse and neglect

I’m getting “me” back

With my smarmy attitude and my no fucks given!!

Going places!

Not giving a fuck if I wear makeup to hide the damage to my skin

Being silly and obnoxious with friends! Hell I’m singing in public and not giving a shit!

And working on my tan with a lil help from a new friend

I’m doing it!

You can to… In whatever way you need, you can do the positive too

I’ll try to post more, this has motivated me but it’s very hot here so I’ll still be slow

But I want my life back and this blog is a part of that

Thanks for being a part of it too ❀

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