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Poly speed dating event




But never a few…

Have you ever thought about the idea of having more than one lover, at the same time and everyone knowing about it… everyone being ok with it and everyone joining in…

I am not talking about a threesome or an orgy, those are different words with different meanings.

What I am talking about is polyamore, the act of loving and enjoying more than one person at a time.

I have long known that I was never meant to love just one person.

Yes I dream of that special love and passion I will feel for just one person but as I haven’t met them yet, I just don’t see why I should limit who or how many I love.

I like the idea of being part of a group, loving and being close in so many ways to a couple or more than just two. I like the idea of belonging to people that all care intensely for me and I for them.

So being open to this concept and having long ago realized how easily I am able to loving others, I attended a polyamore speed dating event.

I have never been to a speed dating event of any kind and had no idea what to expect.

Excited and trying to look my best I showed up slightly early so I would have plenty of time to get lost, I am very good at finding things…generally after a bit of a meander.

Headphones over my ears and a bounce in my step, I headed off over the bridge at blackfriars to the chosen pub. Once there it was somewhat obvious to tell who outside was loitering around and trying to figure out what floor the event was being held on.

As I am horribly shy, I asked if they knew where we all were going and when no one knew I scampered off inside to the bar and asked… where exactly that…event… was being held.

In a pub full of “normal” people, one cant simply ask… where is the kink event or the erotic event or the poly meet or even something as simple as the speed dating event.

You have to be subtle so as to keep the average customers in the dark of our interesting life style that they are not yet ready to embrace.

So simply mentioning the …event… to the lovely lady at the bar gained me the information I was searching for… go up to the second floor bar… I really must remember that the floor I was on was the basement or ground floor and that everyone counts the floor above as the first floor.

So confusing…


Grabbing the stragglers, we made our way up and up and into the room reserved for us.

Getting our numbers, papers and learning the plan for the night and figuring out how the whole program worked.

I spoke with many wonderful people, some I would really love to stay friends with but I have to admit none there really sparked my interest.

Then again I am extremely picky and looking for something… just right

The event itself was very fun, though I admit I was amazed at how few kinky people where there!

I was actually having to hold back my personality and think of vanilla things to talk about… have you met me? Do you have any idea how hard that is for me?!!

They had a very neat list of ideas to talk about and I panicked when I didn’t see anything overtly sexual or kinky … was hilarious

I really would like to go to another one


note: this was a few months back, an event i spotted on fetlife and was highly curious about

Gamers munch

written 2011

tonight was a gaming night/munch at a place called the stinging nettle pub (london)

i think i was the first to arrive and ordered a crabbies (ginger beer yes the alcohol kind, which i only found out existed a few weeks ago) and waited for people to arrive.

some very good people showed up and there where some great games being had, i enjoyed playing poker (read that as one good hand other wise lost all) using different colored tic tacs….mmm tasty bits

was funny seeing the faces when i started comparing yummy tasty bits to crunchy tasty bits, like bacon…some did not believe me when i said bacon is great with chocolate and chili peppers… to each their own lol

got into a bit of a mild war with the bar tender, he didnt believe me when i said the order of tequila but HA this link proves it [http://www.tequila.net/faqs/tequila/types-of-tequil…]
jose cuervo is a mixto, not a real tequila :p

i cant drink the gold, it is too harsh but the silver and the different rested tequilas are really nice

hate it when i cant remember enough information even though i know i am right

but its ok i got him in the end!

subject as the group was leaving turned to bar wenches, i would make a great bar wench, already been one with pics to prove it…

he was curious about that…
dont think he knew about fetlife before but told him to join and look up my pictures
ha! should be interesting, lil innocent me in his bar till he sees the pics and my …true… nature lol


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