you inspired today’s blog #SFW #photo

i have received private messages on fetlife or other sites for years

always saying the same thing

“you inspire me” “you give me hope” “i can’t post pics like this to the world but i can love my body”

women…and men! have told me how brave i am to love myself, maybe not be content with all of my body

but to still go against the body shaming that people and society encourages

i love myself, i love aspects of my body and i am slowly shaping my body to the way i want to look

for better health and more energy… not because people think for me or tell me what to do or tell me what is considered attractive

i have no problem with other people and their body… so long as they are healthy and wear clothing that fits their shape

which is why i ave a serious problem with the fashion industry

how fucking complicated is it to make attractive clothing for people of different sizes?!

all shapes, all heights, all the different people with the same goal… to spend money looking and feeling good

stupidity annoys me to no end

ANYWAY

i decided to post a picture taken of me in wisconsin during my trip this past june

showing off my new capris that fit my curves well

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since may, i have started to slim down, my numbers havent changed much but my shape and face are both showing the differences that mark i am losing or reorganizing the weight

i am 5’0 or 152.5cm (silly i know)

i weigh 85 kilo or 187 lbs or 13.38 st

most of my weight is in my legs

i spent years doing sports and roller skating reallllly changed the shape of my legs

muscle weighs more than fat

but my breasts are heavy haha

E on the left

F on the right

i have scars and stretch marks

i have a body that has been through a lot

things mark my body even if they are not visible

but this is my body

i only have the one

i want to enjoy life in this body, treat it well and enjoy others

find your own desires, make them happen

love your body

dont listen to anyone who body shames

love who you are… faults and all

the reason i posted this today?

another lovely leaving a message

if i keep inspiring others to be kind to their-self

i will keep posting

2 Responses

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  2. great post. i think you are very attactive and am glad that you inspire other people to love themselves I try to love my body, but it is hard. i think it is more because i have a sickness that affects me at times than me feeling like I am unattractive. I hope though that the American media does change how it advertises beauty one day. There are a few models now that are now the ideal weight, but there should be more of a change in peoples perception of beauty. i hope it comes soon

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