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    March 2015
    M T W T F S S

where the sun don’t shine… #SinfulSunday

where the sun don’t shine

and a lamp works just fine

light up the dark so you know where you belong

between my legs

up my dress

remove my stockings

hide from the light

your tongue felt but out of sight

ah… where the sun don’t shine

on the days

the nights

when you are mine

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remember, sinful sunday is all about the image

click on the lips to see who else has joined in to be sinful

remember to leave comments

yes i am a naughty one as i forget

i think i need a good bar with free net, a beer and a corner to hide in haha

Sinful Sunday

google is mental!

i went to see a friend
he has a female cat, about 3yrs old
she is still a virgin
she is suuuuuch a lil wannabe slut
so she rubs all over me, smells google on my clothing and bag
rubs alllllll over anything that is mine

i get home
google shys away from me petting him
i kinda put vinegar on his ears earlier to get rid of the ticks he got from the nearby field
he suddenly smells the female cat

gets this look in his eyes
does this voice that sounds like “i am so going to rape your god damn arm RIGHT FUCKING NOW”
and reaches up to try and grab my wrist

weird day
no beer

he was in the shower #SinfulSunday

Sinful Sunday is all about the image!

enjoy our lovely group of kinky and erotic friends

join in the fun by (re)tweeting our blogs, commenting on those of us participating


hopefully gaining the courage to create your own sinful sunday to share

click on the lips to see who else is being sinful

Sinful Sunday

i took these images a while back but never had the chance to use them

i often find myself near men and thinking…. how i wish they would let me film them

to help show off how attractive they are

but not in a way that is attributed to what society calls sexy…

not in a way that is negative or egotistical

i find men attractive and i tell them

women (in general) get tons of compliments but often men dont

i have known enough men with self image problems, including eating disorders

life happens to everyone

we all want to be loved and seen for who we really are

we all want that genuine affection and attention that should be easily had from all around us

given and taken in balance

but we dont

society says who is beautiful and who is allowed to feel special

though even the “pretty” people suffer

we want to be loved

tonight i am giving love to TinMan

he is a young male with a very large and sweet soul

he carries this in a slim frame that i find beautiful

similar to how angels are beautiful no matter which sex is attributed to them

androgyny leaving the center and diving into masculinity

TinMan has asked me to post images of him to help reshape his self view

something i have been working on in my own images

i would love to do this for others too

my camera has so much love to show in images of those willing to submit to my gaze

 so this is my dear friend

please share your warm comments

he trusts you wild and crazy and kinky lot

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getting clean from some fun.. notice how shapely that ass!

not to mention better at scrubbing his own back than i am…. more fun to help him though *evil grin*

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a cock shot that still stays hidden…

the water on the glass is always an added pleasure

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trying to keep him in a respectful image

not that you lot haven’t seen it before *evil grin*

though i have to keep the humor going

sadly he wouldnt let me use one of the superhero logos

i giggle and he gives me this look… it makes me giggle more

feels good to be laughing and happy

been a very stressful month


so.. please be kind to the men in your life

love them, shower them with kindness that is genuine

today is international women’s day

noted for us women that have made and will continue to make huge contributions to the world

my biggest gift is helping others to love themselves

kisses to you all

i hope one of you lovelies will be next in front of my camera

fetlife … fetishes, long hair and why people should fuck off

once again i have been inspired to write

reading through some of the posts that show up from fetlife

i found this one interesting because i have had friends challenged about how kinky they are or look

one friend almost getting tossed out of an event because he just looked too normal (there was no dress code)


this post is about a fetish being judged

the person asks if anyone else is being asked to justify their fetish

she enjoys men with long hair

it is an intense pleasure

it is her fetish

she writes

I’ve got a few accounts on other fetish and dating sites. Increasingly, I’m being asked to explain the ‘anatomy’ of my fetish. I’m regularly accused of being shallow and I’m commonly told: ‘Liking long hair isn’t a ‘REAL’ fetish but merely a preference’. Surely,


is defined as:

noun: fetish; plural noun: fetishes

a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
“a man with a fetish for surgical masks”
synonyms: fixation, sexual fixation, obsession, compulsion, mania;

I’m upset and confused as to why, others seem to view aesthetic fetishes in a more negative light? I’m in NO way shallow and dislike this assumption with a passion. Why do you think others can’t take us seriously? Does your experience vary?

Please, discuss and share your thoughts.

Thanks xx

so my response was the following

remember, it is how i see my world, not how everyone should see it

i have been studying the kink/bdsm world since i was 12

ok 8 if you count how i felt about david bowie in labyrinth…

yeah yeah he has a cock in his pants but oooo what is that “I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave”…. D/s mind games!!! i love them!!!

the scene has changed over the last 20+ years
much like music, a good strong starting point for ideas but later splicing off into similar paths with more added to the mix

some people are stupid, arrogant and happy to remain clueless
they judge and think they know best
telling what you should be like instead of trying to understand what works for you

i know a couple of guys with the fetish of shrinking and using…; either they are shrunk or their partner shrunk and someone getting used in a naughty way
usually i have males that want to be shrunk and have me put them in my panties or image i eat them or what not

not my thing… i get nothing from that, hard to even imagine it

i had one guy that really wanted to pretend like he was being eaten
hog tied, slathered with sauces, fake baking and fake eating

again not my thing does absolutely fuck all for me

poney play.. seriously? i just dont get it, i mean i understand how it works i just dont get how it is enjoyable

but thats me

my fetish is touch and cuddles and a good voice
i am also a giver, i love to give pleasure to others and i often take pride in it, a bit smug even
the best is giving in such a way that it can cause pain (not harmful) for those who like to be dominated in a more mother goddess loving way… love hurts as well as heals

i just cant pull of the big bad ass latex dominatrix lol

everyone is different
their brain is wired differently
we enjoy life our way
but best to do it in a way that is consensual and causes no harm/damage

just something that caught my eye and wanted to share

oh look!… why yes that’s rodent shit… aren’t you lucky!

so lets sum up this year in my housing situation (ok really just about 6 months)

mid august i sign papers on a 3bd house
it is technically a townhouse although the whole thing was once a big stone thing…now divided into 3 different houses and refurbish/extensions and all that happy whooha

near the middle of nowhere with a lil bit of garden and some land in front that is wild run space for the neighborhood cats (mine included)

wasnt my first choice but being poor, on french gov help (read that as slow as fuck and random due to so many complications that the US system actually “seems” competent) i dont have many options and i was on a deadline that was fading fast

i pay too much
sept comes around quick… neighbor is fucking MENTAL as all get up and not the fun kind..starts stalking me all the way through october

oct.. starting to get cold, cant keep house warm enough, always damp and neighbor fucktard ruins my birthday and halloween… remember me ranting about wanting to slash his throat for kissing me and putting his hands on me without invite?

nov… son and i have both been sick, he has missed over 130hrs of school.. oh look MOLD IN THE FUCKING HOUSE… but ya know, owners mom (one of neighbors) says just air the house 20min each day and use vinegar or bleach.. my son and i are fucking allergic to chemicals smells and mold… and i am paying wayyyyyy to much to heat the house and it is always cold!

dec… son drops out of school cause of abuse from school over his sickness and doctors being dicks…got someone to clean the mold but it is in the strips around the windows so those have to come out and be resealed… iaint touching that….

jan… you hear that? yeah google heard that… something in the ceiling and the side wall.. fuck… mold coming back slowly, bill 2 for heating still too damn high (for nothing) wiring off in certain areas, other small issues

feb… rinse repeat all the fucking above..threw out some food that had gone molding on the outside..flour…rice was swollen in the box… lovely

oh look! its march 3rd 2:23 am and guess what I HAVE FECAL MATER IN MY “CLOSET”… i made a glass fall to the floor and break..not meaning to, the table was too cluttered while i was cooking

google was seriously interested in me cleaning up the glass but my 17yr old held the cat down to keep him out of the way as i swept up

then i bend down near the “closet”… thats animal shit… i know that smell, i worked with rodents before
the “closet” is a small door and “area” with open pit like thing with ladder down into cellar/cave.. yeah that door stays closed, i like my wine where i can drink it

so i never open it… but i open it tonight
the opening was closed off with a cement lid, it can be removed but can also make the whole thing usable for storage…as fucking if! not with all the moisture in this house
so on the slab i see shit all over, some fresher than others, some grey tuffs that could be fur or mold of excellent standing… i didnt really look that hard

took a pic with a 2€ coin… think about the size of a quarter.. some of the droppings were nearly the diameter of the damn coin … think just under an inch

there is also a “shelf” like ceiling which had poo in one area but not where the piping is so i am doubting rats
i looked outside and the window to the area above the shelfing thing… not open and slightly higher and to one side is poo smears…
all of that being well over 7′ up

i could fucking scream
not that it is rodents
already saw a cute lil one in the garage but not typical mouse, different tail… i know mice

no i could scream in frustration
i could grab the damn rodent (if found) and swing the fucker by its tail and bash it into the wall, brain first
so fucking fed up with trying so hard to just have the simple things in life and every blessing is just another time bomb waiting to blow

sorry… needed to vent


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