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needing advice on how to help my sick dad

looks like i will need to start a gofundme account for my dad
he is getting worse each month

still suffering graft vs host and he has been cancer free for 13 years
but it weakened him and the heart attack, double pneumonia, stroke and constant infection in 2014 is killing him

he needs to move out of the apartment he lives in (upper level, too many stairs) and get help with cooking, shopping, laundry/cleaning and he needs someone to make that damn infection go away

he gets meals on wheels but their food makes him ill, too spicy for his system…
he is hyper sensitive to everything right now and if he isnt eating then his body is only going to shut down all the more quickly

he is only 63
the guy used to do construction and haul big ass pool tables around like nothing… now he is on oxygen and barely functioning

being so far away is driving me crazy
i cant rely on his family to help
the not knowing and the lack of people to contact… it is driving me to panic attacks

i know people have wanted to help set up a gofundme account for myself and my kids… very sweet but complicated due to living in another country and going through the process of divorce

i don’t want someone to do this for me
i want advice on how to best use gofundme, from friends who have used it
advice on what i need to be looking for to spend the money on.. as in assisted living needs
i have a number of friends who are nurses, doctors or care workers…

i need your brain right now
help me think
help me plan
i know a lot of my friends are struggling with their own lives
ideas and experience sharing can sometimes be just as helpful as cash

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