angry with #JamieDornan insulting #bdsmCommunity


friend of mine is livid over the insulting comments and disrespect given by actor Jamie Dornan about the bdsm/kink community

my friend is so offended by his bigoted behavior that she refuses to watch any more of his work

i can’t say i blame her

what bothers me is that he considers himself an actor…

real actors/performers are more than a pretty face that can read lines convincingly…

the real actors/actresses are the ones that do take the time to really understand what they are getting into, find the right mentors and give respect to the thing they are trying to represent in their role….

he fits perfectly for a book that is an insult to the bdsm/kink community…

a clueless “frat boy” personality who is happy in his ignorance and feels he can open his mouth without being punished for the hurt he lets out…

he doesnt seem aware of the potential damage…

to others, to the community….

to the newbies who are curious but fear joining because they could meet the wrong people…

or those people like his character in 50 shades of grey, the wrong people, who think that making someone a victim in the name/guise of bdsm/kink is acceptable

enjoying my whiskey #SinfulSunday


as always, sinful sunday is about the image
be ever so sweet and see who else is enjoying sunday in their own sinful ways
click on the lips and grace us with your comments

Sinful Sunday

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sunday again and amazed where the time went
a week of stress and tears
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spending my weekend relaxing
enjoying some sweet whiskey
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had fun altering this pic
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and here is one showing the changes to my hair after the home oil treatment
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hope you are enjoying the last bits of sunday

bad google! bad kitty!


note to self…. when trying to record audio files of your erotic writing…
leave google on the other side of the door…ditzy cat!
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3 times i was close to finishing
and google fucks things up!
the last time he tries climbing the half wall in my room but too many boxes in his way so his claws scramble for grip and he makes this noise
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i lost it and my frustration won….
COCK SUCKING MOTHER FUCKING TITS!
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gatta love george

color on my breast #SinfulSunday


it is sunday again and time to be sinful… click on the lips and see who else is being sinful ;)
please enjoy but remember to leave comments for those of us participating in the meme
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today’s sinful sunday is the challenge ‘spalsh of color’

Sinful Sunday

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the past few weeks have been horible, full of cold and depression
but i was given a lovely rose
i am not used to such things
and it cheered me

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i hate this time of year ..mini rant


i hate this time of year
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i have a house that is still a mess because i dont have enough storage units to store shit
virtually no furniture
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probly not going to afford much for the kids for the holidays
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probly wont get paid for the food they eat while the stay with me the first half of the holidays
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right now, all i really want is the house to be warm, clean and some simple decorations to bring back the magic they havent been getting in the 6yrs we have been here
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i hate this time of year
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i am over budget on everything
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i wash my dishes by hand because i dont have a machine..i spend hours at the sink and it is depressing
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i have no washing machine and spend about 50€ a month doing laundry at the laundry box nearby… more hours of my life gone
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i bought material to make curtains so i can keep the heat out but i still have to finish the edging and buy things to hang them
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i have to fix my car… god only knows what they will tell me, might end up needing 800 or more in repairs if they get looking for reasons to take my money
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i need the cd player deblocked and the driverside chair deblocked..hope i dont need new tires AGAIN.. i have to get it checked for that thing you do.. cant remember the name in english or french but that thing for making it road legal cause that is coming up next month
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it is sluggish..does that mean new spark plugs or something? i dont know cars
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my cat and the neighbors cat are trying to piss in my plants… inside plants…
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neighbor was a drunk fuck, he smashed up his car on the new road hump that was installed with all the other lovely changes to the little town i live in… he fucked up a lot of shit and each airbag deployed and front window has long cracks and there was oil allll over… same neighbor that has no problem trying to molest me or tries to get too close to the other two female neighbors (one younger than me, one older)… seems karma is going to be one cruel bitch to him
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hope he leaves us alone, i dont need his bs
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unemployment people look at me and say “but you dont look sick” and want me working 35 hours a week
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i havent worked in 6.5 years and the year before that i was either pregnant or on maternity leave… so make it i havent worked part time or full time in at least 7.5 years
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there is no way i can cope with that many hours, my health is way better but …i need more sleep than most, i need a fucking dishwasher and washing machine or i cant work..yay catch 22
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doesnt help that they want me working as a secretary..in the uk or the states i could but no fucking way in france! just no way… it is too complicated!
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and it doesnt help that my son goes to school 35 min north of where i live, the unemployment people want me visiting their location or working near them which is 25-30 min east of where i live and over an hour from my son… he has issues too and i cant be that far from him!
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no one is listening to me
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they hear what they want and do what they think i need
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i dont get the right paperwork! i am made to look like some crazy fool that is overly paranoid! even my paranoia is justified when they keep fucking me over!
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the people who are empathetic to my situation cant help
the ones who can help dont give a fuck and fail to see why i am so upset
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i am fighting so many small battles and big wars
i dont want a shrink..
i want fun
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i want a life
i want the small things
the simple things
i want friends that are closer to me than (min 35 min and i have to drive cause they dont) over 2hours away
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i want a girls night out..whatever that means…i wouldnt know cause i dont do that
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i want to go to the movies
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i want the normal small shit that people take forgranted
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i want the OPTION to do my nails and pamper myself…i just want that option
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i want to stop “coping” ..stop existing..i want to live and have a life
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i want to give that to my kids
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i dont understand why everything has always been so damn complicated
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yes, i know, there are others who have it worse
but i am not them
my pain and fears and frustrations are valid!
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i hate this time of year
it reminds me how worthless i feel every day and try to for get that
i know it is bs..part of the damage applied to me, the traumas of being a victim vs getting past all that bs and being a survivor ..aka trying to be/look normal
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fuck i hate this time of year
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and too much to do …so cant keep whining…have to go bitch at people for being retarded…again!

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